The Enter the Wound Challenge

I've been reading the works of John Eldredge lately, one concept that he talks about that struck me is "entering the wound." Weather we are consciously aware of it or not, our emotional and spiritual wounds have a way of defining us; since they set the course for our entire lives. I say that because our wounds affect the way we perceive ourselves, as well as how we treat others. So much of what we do is an attempt to cater to our wounds. To cover up the sting of them, or to protect them from being reopened. So many of the sins we can never seem to overcome all come back to this, since we are merely addressing a symptom of a larger problem. One that we would just assume avoid, since healing often comes very painfully. 

Just imagine if we truly approached sin as a brokenness to heal, rather than an evil to eliminate, or a mere conduct to change, it could completely alter our pursuit of righteousness. Which would inevitably lead to greater understanding in our spiritual walk. As opposed to the futility of dealing with things legalistically in the strength of our own flesh, as many others over the last few thousand years have tried and failed repeatedly. Which often leads to people trying to fake it, if not just give up. In the end, whitewashing our wounds does not make us anymore holy than washing our hands does.

It would also lead us to react to the sin of others quite differently as well. When we consider the wounds behind people's behavior, it is only then do we really see the person and the hurt they must deal with, rather than just the surface sin that glares at us. Only then can we love the person as God loved us through the struggle, rather than hate the sin as a means of forced submission. A sinful action in itself that we rationalize because we lack the maturity, understanding, and Christ-likeness of heart that comes from allowing God to transform your broken heart.

For many it's far easier to just cater to our scars with hidden sin, rather than go through the uncomfortable process of facing them. Even if there are many lingering symptoms and side effects from avoiding the problem. Since familiar problems often seem more tolerable than unfamiliar long term solutions. 

As easy as it may sound, we can often make it difficult. Frequently we are not self-aware enough, to even know what to bring before God. The thing is we don't have to be, we just need to be brave enough to allow God to "enter our wounds" and face what he reveals to us. Only then can we take steps towards true healing and break the bondage that our scars hold us under. 

What about you? Are you up to the enter the wound challenge?

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For out of the heart come evil thoughts—murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. These are what defile a person; but eating with unwashed hands does not defile them. -Matthew 15:19-20

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Giving Thanks

For many of us the tradition of Thanksgiving is just a day for feasting with family. Often forgetting that it is also a Biblical concept. So in honor of the lost art of gratitude, here is a list of ways to give thanks to God.

Worship (Romans 12:1)

Study (Psalm 119:97-104)

Prayer (Matthew 6:5-15)

Praise (Psalm 150)

Obedience (John 14:23-24)

Service (Matthew 25:31-46

Offering (1 Chronicles 21:24)

Not letting your talents and gifts go to waste (Matthew 25:14-31-46)

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The revolving door church

Here is a quote from the August 2015 issue of Light & Life magazine 

"Learning to follow has become especially difficult in current culture. Millennials, and increasingly older generations, no longer consider denominational or even local church affiliations binding. Loyalties, if we retain any at all, shift with our needs and interests. Trust in institutions such as church, government, school, or marriage is at it's lowest since the baby boomers broke out a Beatles style revolution." -Jill Richardson

I really wish I could just dismiss such a statement, but the fact of the matter is; I know it is absolutely true. It seems that the 21st century church in America is equipped with a revolving door. Every time something doesn’t satisfy them they are out of there.  And it’s quite easy for them to do that in this age since often they have dozens of other options to choose from. It makes me wonder what such people really serve, worship, and follow. Is it really principle that motivates them as they claim, or something far less noble.

Some of the elders of Israel came to me and sat down in front of me. Then the word of the Lord came to me:  “Son of man, these men have set up idols in their hearts and put wicked stumbling blocks before their faces. Should I let them inquire of me at all? Therefore speak to them and tell them, ‘This is what the Sovereign Lord says: When any of the Israelites set up idols in their hearts and put a wicked stumbling block before their faces and then go to a prophet, I the Lord will answer them myself in keeping with their great idolatry. -Ezekiel 14:1-4

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Knowledge without understanding

The other day I heard a phrase that went "knowledge does not necessarily mean understanding." The statement immediately took me back to freshman English, where we were made to memorize all the grammar rules, yet no attempt was made to show us how to apply said rules. Our teacher made the mistake of assuming that knowledge automatically meant understanding. So ultimately much of that knowledge did not help become better writers and communicators. I'm sure this is something that many people should take into consideration, including the church. I have no doubt that there are many who have fallen victim to empty knowledge. I've run into many who knew so much of the history of the Bible, but no applicable understanding of it. I've run into so many who get so hung up on theological definitions. For them it's all about accepting a rule, and expecting others to do the same. Yet they can't even see how they are violating the very definition they idolize through the unloving system they try to force submission of that standard. If they truly understood what they claimed to believe, there would be more living of the word, and less lecturing of it. 

It's precisely why the church should stop relying so much on lecture, policy, and politics to try to change the world, for it imparts only empty knowledge and surface change, or as Jesus called it, whitewash. 

The church needs to start to inspire people to seek understanding for themselves. Through narrative, art, action, and example. To teach more like Jesus did. So that, we can eventually, bridge the gap between knowledge and understanding. Of course we must understand it ourselves to do that, not just know it.

Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You are like whitewashed tombs, which look beautiful on the outside but on the inside are full of the bones of the dead and everything unclean. In the same way, on the outside you appear to people as righteous but on the inside you are full of hypocrisy and wickedness. -Matthew 23:27-28

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Hope

When you get down to it, everybody wants the same thing, Hope. We don’t always consciously see it that way because, we are most fixated on where that hope is placed, rather than the hope it represents in our heart. For most people, that hope is placed in things that we accomplish or acquire. Which can run the spectrum of everything from money, career, home, relationships, family, and possessions. It can be very easy to cling to this alleged hope as long as we don't have all these things. It can always seem just beyond our grasp, in something more. For example, in the case of a single person, it can manifest in the idea of, if only I had a romantic relationship. We find a relationship, and it turns into, if only I were married. We get married, and it turns into, if only I had children. We have children, and it turns into, if only we had a nice house and car to complete our home. We can keep going and going on and on until there are no more dreams to fulfill, and the bubble bursts with the realization that fulfilled dreams do not necessarily mean fulfilled hope. We can see many things occur at this point. We might blame all the people we once looked to for hope via impatience, unkindness, rudeness, and criticism. Or we can abandon those same people and try it all again with somebody else. Or we can go back to a time before the bubble burst via the classic mid life crisis. Or we can try with an entirely new path. 

We sometimes see an exaggerated sense of this in celebrities. For they have acquired and achieved nearly everything their hearts have desired. Yet, they still manage to crash and burn. While this perplexes many who put all their hope in everything that they have, but it stands as a testament that all we achieve and acquire will not necessarily fulfill hope. 

Not that what we put our hope in is as universal as all that. Just look at the phenomenon of hoarding. It may look like a big pile of junk to most, but to them it is their hope. It does not matter how much you point out that it is just junk, for as long as it represents "hope" in their hearts, they will not let it go easily. When you get down to it, all the junk is just the symptom; the real problem lies in the heart. Until healing is brought to their hearts, their behavior will not change no matter how much we criticize them.

Even as believers who should know where true hope lies, often get caught up in these traps of seeking the created rather than the creator for our hope. All because of the simple fact that the created is more tangible, even if the results are not. Consider this as you ponder these passages on hope. 

Psalm 25, 33, 37, 42, 62, 71, 130

Proverbs 10:28; 11:7, 23; 13:12; 19:18

Matthew 12:16-21

Hebrews 6:13-20

1 Peter 1:13-25

1 John 3:1-3

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Ascension day

This last Thursday (5-14-15) signified a little-known part of the Easter season known as Ascension day, or the Feast of Ascension. (sometimes observed the following Sunday) Which signifies the day Jesus ascended into heaven after spending an additional 40 days on earth after the resurrection. Which is recorded in Luke 24:50-53. Which begs the question why do our traditions honor his birth, his sacrifice, and resurrection so freely and with such emphasis. Yet, we let the day where he officially took his throne in heaven go by without nearly as much notice. Are we trying to keep Jesus in the manger? Are we trying to keep Christ on the cross? Yet, are we trying to keep the Son of God out of the throne in of our lives? They are questions we would do well to consider. Do we really acknowledge Christ as King? Do we really recognize him as an authority over our lives as disciples? Can we truly call ourselves Christians if we don’t?

The final 40 days of Jesus time earth is one of the least documented portions of his life. (Matthew 28:16-20, Mark 16:9-20, Luke 24:13-53, John 20:19-21:25) The accounts in Luke and John being the most compelling. Yet for the remaining 11 apostles it must have been the most eye opening time. The last 3 years of their lives must have come into focus during these days. The reality of the sheer power of God surly became quite undeniably real to them as they witnessed the impossible become possible before their eyes. All the things that they did not understand before must have become clear as they looked back on them in hindsight. All their preconceived notions were shattered and replaced with truth as Jesus explained how Old Testaments prophecies were fulfilled.  Most importantly what their role in the future church would be. How the responsibility of the gospel was now in their hands. How they had a purpose called the Great Commission.

If Christ is truly our king then we need to prepare ourselves to take up the mantle of the calling ourselves as a member of the body of Christ. Then again, maybe that is precisely why we want to keep Jesus in the manger, or on the cross. We want only the privilege of the gospel, but not the responsibility of it.  

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Living as Light

It’s better to light a candle, than to curse the dark. 

This is a saying I came across this last week. I was so struck by it that I made a drawing based upon it, which is posted below. It’s a saying that is certainly poignant in an age that is so very fond of complaining about everything that we see wrong in the world. Yet those same people seem so unwilling to do the tiniest thing to actually counter that wrong. Since actually lighting that proverbial candle involves getting involved. Where cursing the dark only involves criticizing people into doing the things we have no desire to do. All because we want the results without engaged effort. 

What we as believers need to remember is what Jesus said about that.

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” - Matthew 5:14-16 

Being the light is an active thing, not a passive thing, or a passive aggressive thing. Yet if we choose to condemn, and judge with impatience unkindness, rudeness, hatred, and anger we are being very passive aggressive. Which only adds to the dark since such unloving behavior violates the very truth that Jesus came to testify to. (John 13:35 & 18:37) In this age of many empty and fruitless words, perhaps its time for believers to say less and inspire more with actions and truth. (1 John 3:18) It is time for us to be the light that Jesus called us to be, rather than mere cursers of darkness as the Pharisees had been. 

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